It was a stressful day wit, two of our clients, who are sisters giving me trouble. I shopped for things for Focus & when I got to Windsor St. which is right beside Focus to drop off the items I just purchased. There were two cars parked, right by the STOP sign, which is ilegal & dangerous. I got out of my car & asked for them to move & they lighted on me like a match. It was not pleasant. One of the sisters went into Focus & started screaming why do you think that was necessary :(( Some of our girls are troubled & do what they want to do with no correction from anybody....& here I came & correct. I am not a victim so I waited until they went home with their mouth still moving. So sad!! The other car, which was behind them, moved with no problem. Some people are workable & some are not...... we saw many people today & it was so busy.
Tuesday & Wednesday, September 17 & 18, 2019 at Focus
Stress is my friend for I receive so much of it we better get along in order to run the pregnancy center. It is so busy & that is good but it is hard at times. Enough complaining.
I did receive permission to show the important movie 'Unplanned' at the Focus Pregnancy Center but when Mike & I tried to start it wouldn't start so I had to cancel the next day. We worked on it all evening long & Mike thought that a friend of his could help him but couldn't I had to cancel for Wednesday evening. I certainly hope that no one shows up.
I was looking for the DVD player that Rick generously gave Focus & I couldn't find it so I called Neyoka. She called me back saying that she accidently threw it out. Sorry Rick..... Mike & I went to Best Buys at 7 pm on Tuesday to purchase a DVD player. We then went back to Focus & set everything up but the DVD would not Play. We tried & tried & tried so many times & ways but it would not Play. Gave up & I got home at 12:10 am.
September 24, 25 & 26 at Focus
First, I want to acknowledge Planned Parenthood, for reading my Blog, hope your heart & mind will change & you will stop murdering little babies, for money, the root of all EVIL. Women are permanently affected by abortion. Why would you want to injure women, too? Please REPENT for Hell is forever.
It was a challenging week at Focus ministering to all the clients that come into the Center for assistance. We give the Truth to the clients & most are grateful for that. Some have already changed their lives & are happy, healthy & holy.
We spend time with the clients to see what they need & try to provide for them. My recent request is for more non-perishable food items. Someone gave me $40.00 in cash to go buy some for our clients who are hungry. Another $10.00 came for another donation so I will have $50.00 for shopping at Tops Market for our food cupboard. Thank you Lord!!!
It was a busy but rewarding week......many more to come.
Tuesday, October 1, 2019 at Focus
I went to the Post office & then to the Bank & then to Focus. I knew that Martha had an appointment, so she had to leave by 3pm, so I had Linda & her husband Sal come to check the equipment for the showing of 'Unplanned/ next week & to work the center.
I was in the office working & was told that there was a client in need of a pregnancy test. She found us online. She was a nice young lady & her test was Positive. I gave her our list of pro life doctors who don't do abortions nor refer for them. She was happy & was not abortion minded. She is hoping for a son. We'll see.
Linda was busy taking care of the many clients that came in for assistance. I can't buy diapers & formula fast enough. We have healthy, happy moms & children. Thank you Lord for making that possible.
Then I was told that another client wanted a pregnancy test. I went out to the main room & saw two girls coming my way. The one girl I recognized but the other girl I did not. She was the one for the test. They were very nice. Her test was Negative & I began to talk to her about waiting until marriage for sex. She was quite respective & I was glad, She said that she goes to church & I said that if you believe in God then you must obey His Commandments. She smiled & said "yes, that's right". I mentioned that she can be a Secondary Virgin & she said "yes, that sounds good". Her friend was supportive to her too. Her dress was to short & to low, so I invited then to go into the Material Aid Room to shop, which they did. More clients were coming in with their children & so I invited them into the office to receive a Rosary to pray daily. They chose the color of their personal Holy Rosary & left with a smile on their beautiful faces.
Wednesday & Thursday October 2 & 3 2019 at Focus
Both days were good days for we helped many clients with love. We had great volunteers to assist us & were pleasantly busy.
On Wednesday Martha did a pregnancy test & it was Positive & she is going for an ultrasound next week I will call for a Taxi for her for she doesn't have a ride. She is happy to be able to see her baby through the ultrasound.
A Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner came to Focus to talk to Martha, Jackie & I for he wants to get involved in the Pro Life cause. Jackie gave him some suggestions to help him. It was so nice to have met him & spend some time with him, a very interesting man, and he loves God.
On Thursday I went to Tops Market to get Lynda some Birthday presents. We got her a beautiful bouquet of multicolored flowers & her favorite candy & a dreamie light pick chocolate cupcake cake.....so unique. When I arrived at Focus there was a young girl near the parking lot where we park so I had crossed the street & she crossed the street so I called out to her that Planned Parenthood kills babies & hurts women & we at Focus don;t kill but help for We Care!!! She was approached by the pro life team who was on the sidewalk ner to Planned Parenthood so I know that they spoke to her too. I only hope & pray that she didn't go into that horrible place to take the abortion pill that is also killing women besides their precious babies. Girls you are a victim of their Lies & Deception. Killing your baby will haunt you for the rest of your lives..... until you REPENT for this serious sin against Almighty God. He forgives all sin with your sincere heart but please don't do this & have your baby & we & other Pregnancy Centers will help you. Dont believe Planned Parenthood!!!
When I went in to Focus I had a heavy heart & said the Hail Mary prayer many times & trusted in the Lord that she will not have an abortion & well as all women.
There were some clients already here so I waited until they left & got the card & asked Martha to sign it & went out to the Main Room with everything & we sang Happy Birthday to our sweet Lynda who's birthday is October 11th., but she can't come to Focus next week, so we celebrated it today. We had a surprise for Kathy Burke came in to surprise us & to give us some donations. It was so good to see her again. Then came Jackie, & she brought us some donations too, lots of Christmas things. We all sat at the table ate & talked, it was so nice. Tom joined us later after being out on the front lines for hours.
A pregnant woman came in with her mother to get some things for her children. I started to talk to her & she said that her twins were conceived in rape. I shared that I was gang raped at Strong Memorial Hospital & conceived twins but I miscarried them. My heart still hurts. I was going for a Pap Smear & that didn't happen but the gang rape did happen & one of them is the father of the precious twins that I lost. I named them Jessica Rose & Aaron Joseph. I will see them in Heaven someday!!! We got her some church bulletins to go to Confession & then back to weekly Mass & she was receptive. She got many things & was grateful She thanked us but I thank her, for she never thought of killing her twins, who were conceived in a Rape!! Good girl sweet lady. God smiled on you!
We ordered out & the woman who brought the food told us that she will be bringing things for us for our clients, she's never been here before....Wow!!! I guess she was touched when she came into the Center!!! It was a good week!!! Thank you Lord!!!!
Bobbie please have a blessed Saturday as your son gets married. Hopefully he will come back to the one true Catholic Church & get his marriage blessed some day!!! Don't worry just keep on praying.
Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday on October 8, 9 & 10th at Focus
This week was busy & I had no time to write on my diary of what happens at Focus. Sorry!
We showed the very important movie 'Unplanned' about a former worker there for 8 years, at Focus on Wednesday. This is the second time Martha & I have seen it & it was just as hard to watch again. You can't get anyone at Planned Parenthood to watch it, I guess for it hits to close to home. The Director of the killim mill said that it was fake when we peacefully protect their art event in the back of Planned Parenthood this summer. Really, it called DENIAL Miss PP Director!! 🤔
We saw may young mothers that have chosen to give birth rather than to destroy their precious baby in the womb.....what do you think the womb is for? It's to house your son or daughter it's their home for 9 months as it was your home for 9 months. It's now become a place of death for the inhabitant. A pro choice women with education satated to a pro lifer that if you think abortion is murder that why are not these woman in jail. My question too!!!
Tuesday, October 15, 2019 at Focus
I dropped my car off at the garage & Martha brought me to Focus. There were two people waiting at the door to come in for things. Parking is working out okay but sometimes is a challenge that we are working out for our many clients. I went into the office to do my work & was busy for awhile & Martha was working with Bobbie out in the main room.
Martha did a pregnancy test & she was Positive & an ultrasound appointment was made for the next day. She was happy & was married.
Fred came later & went to Target & purchase two pac'n plays for our clients. One of our clients stated talking to Martha & Bobbie & is interested in joining the Catholic Church. Bobbie offered to be her sponsor & will meet her next Sunday at church. Great news!!!
Wednesday, October 16, 2019 at Focus
I had to leave my car at the garage on University overnight so Jackie drove me home & Martha came to pick me up at home, in the morning. We went to Mass, at Our Lady of Victory, downtown before we got to Focus. Then Martha went to Wendy's to get our lunch. We started to see clients shortly after 1:30 pm & we pleasantly busy. Joan came to help us & she was kept busy.
I was in the office working & answering the phone. A young girl came in for a pregnancy test which was Negative & she was told about Abstinence & was given a Truth packet to take with her,
Our clients mean a great deal to us & they are thankful we are here to help with their needs.
I received a call from a girl & she was asking about if we do free pregnancy tests & I said that we do so she was heading over to us. In the meantime I was called by the garage to pick up my car which was ready. I called the client & she said that she could wait until Martha gets back. Thank God that it was very close. Martha dropped me off & then went back to Focus to do the pregnancy test. My car needs more work at the Dealers....really :(((
When I returned Marha told me that this client had two abortions & one pregnancy was Triplets. My heart sank along with Martha's. Before I new I told the father of this baby to marry the mother of his child & he said that he was going to. Then I had to hear this awful news. She did say to my walking out that she was going to keep her baby. An ultrasound was made for next week. Thank God!!
This is the hardest ministry in the world. We are trying to save & to change lives. Women don't kill your baby!!! Women aren't suppose to have abortions........Planned Parenthood thinks you can & they destroy your baby's life & yours too. They just want your $$$. An EVIL organization that lie to you & manipulate your young mind, What you do in the darkness will be exposed to the light. It's a matter of time!!!!!!! 😢
Thursday October 17, 2013 at Focus
I went to the Post Office & then to the Bank & then to Tops to purchase things for Focus the to Focus where Martha is from 11 am to 6pm then she goes to her Holy Hour to spent time with the Risen Lord, can't do this most difficult ministry without her, thank you Lord!!!
pregnancy & we were able to give her a Layette for her baby girl & a pac'n play. She was happy!
We had a large donation of new baby clothes & items for our Layette Room. Thank You Church of the Assumption!!
Martha did a pregnancy test which was Negative. She gave her some good teaching on Chasity.
Tuesday, October 22, 2019 at Focus
Neyoka told me that she was so busy on Monday probably saw 20 clients plus their children. Thank God that Christine was with her. So today wasn't as busy as Monday but we were still busy trying to help our clients with their needs.
We had Bobbie helping us & she such a hard worker as all of our volunteers are. I was in the office most of the time so much to do.
Wednesday, October 23, 2019 at Focus
A very stressful day!! Like most day but it was more today. We had a regular client come in to say that she had gone to her doctors office at Lattimore & was told that her baby had no heartbeat & they told her to go to Planned Parenthood which she did & they gave her a pill to put under her tongue. She went outside & spit it out down the drain & came to Focus. We called Compass Care & they will stop the abortion process tomorrow. They will give an ultrasound to see if she is still pregnant, she said that she was carrying twins. She was crying & quit upset. I asked why she would ever go to Planned Parenthood & she said that she was confused. I gave her a list of good doctors to take with her. I gave her bus money for she wants to take the bus tomorrow. I offered a taxi cab but she said "no". She did take a pac'n play for her 6 month old daughter for she said that she had bed bugs. Her husband came & go the pac'n play to take with them. I asked her to come to Focus or call me tomorrow after her appointment she said that she would come by after the appointment. I have my doubts with this client. We'll see.
Thank God we had 5 volunteers with Martha & I today for we were so very busy. So many children came in too.....great. We want time to talk to our clients to see how their lives are doing & seeing so many people it becomes harder. Every day is so different.
Tuesday, November 5, 2019 at Focus
I went to vote & there I ran into a friend of mine. I lived with her for a summer It was the best summer that I can remember. It was so nice seeing her & talking with her for a while. After that, I went to Focus & asked Martha to get the bag of blankets that I bought from Tuesday Morning yesterday for our clients. They are thankful & I am happy to purchase the blankets for them to be warm, for the weather is getting colder, now.
Martha had made me lunch to take to my office & before I took the first bite our young girl came in for an interview. It went so well but she works & couldn't come into Focus until after 5 pm. So disappointed. Maybe she can come at least once a month, hope so!!!
Linda came to volunteer & was so helpful. Martha & Linda worked hard in the main room & the material aid room & I worked in the office. It's always lighter in the first two weeks of the month until the middle of the month, when the clients need so much for the next 2 weeks until the first of the month again. We are receiving many donations now & we need to put them away.
Someone left a nice stroller at our door plus two large back bags at the front door. Our first client was so happy to receive the stroller, for hers was stolen, on the bus, so sad. She left very happy!!!
Tuesday, November 12, 2019 at Focus
A very stressful day at Focus. I started out & went to the Post Office & then to the Bank & then to Staples, to get rock salt for the center, for it snowed so much yesterday. When I was driving I received a call & at the red light & told the person to call me back in 5 minutes for I was almost at Focus. I tried to pull into the parking lot & got stuck, while I was praying for help when I called the client back. She asked if she could have a pregnancy test & an ultrasound. I told her to come in & we can guide her for a pregnancy test & a referral for an ultrasound. She asked if we could help her with an abortion if she decides to have one. I said that we don't help moms do that to their child who has a heartbeat & a soul. We help them during & after their pregnancy with what they need. She said okay & hung up. How sad that a loving woman wants the option to have her precious son or daughter be mutilated. What is wrong with this society!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had two men come to help me & I was now in the parking lot & parked. Mark came in & he put the three new bulbs in the socket on the ceiling. He was such a help today at Focus. He was praying in front of PP this afternoon. God bless them both.
Michael came in & told me about his program to help so many of our clients with shelter & education, etc.. We will use him in the near future.
Martha told me that a young couple came in & thought this was PP & she told them it was not. She told them that they kill babies but we do not. They ran out. She was stressed today.
Linda came & helped us out immensely for we saw so many clients on a cold snowy day in Rochester.
I pray for New York State & Planned Parenthood that thinks that baby killing is okay...Wounded mothers & fathers are not pretty!!!!
Wednesday, November 13, 2019 at Focus
Another busy day at Focus. So many people & so much work that we are happy to do.
I thank Joan & Frank, for helping out, for we could not have done it without them. The office is looking good & more organized. It will finally happen!
Tuesday, November 26, 2019 at Focus
I received a call, from a young lady, for a pregnancy test tomorrow. I hope she will come. I went to the Post Office & not to the Bank for there was nothing in the box today. But when I arrived at Focus & Martha handed me the mail I was so happy. I asked Linda, who was volunteering, to take me to the Bank & to deposit the very large check for the Mobile Ultrasound Van. Praise God & thank you Knights of Columbus for this very generous donation to save lives of people in the womb!!
Martha & Linda were very busy which is what is expected at the end of the month The next-door neighbor from Focus called the Tow truck yesterday on one of our poor clients. Thanks again, Tom Ellis!!!
I was so happy that when I drove by the house, by the expressway, that had a sign on their front yard which read 'I STAND FOR PLANNED PARENTHOOD', in the recycle bin. I honked for the last time today. They must have found out the truth about this organization that kills people for money.
Every day I pray, for the pro-death neighbors & Planned Parenthood, which surrounds our Pregnancy Center. It's like being surrounded bu wolves. I only hope that they will come to Christ before they die. Lord Have Mercy!!!
Tuesday, December 3, 2019 at Focus
A busy but pleasant day at Focus. I arrived after having going to the Post Office & the Bank tomorrow. When I arrived I saw a young woman coming out Focus with a car seat which is good until 2021. I cleaned my car off some more & it looks good now. I went into Focus & saw that Neyoka made it a Christmas wonderland!! She did such a great job!!
I went into the office & starting working & Martha was out in the Main Room working then the doorbell started ringing. Started to get busy. Later on, Linda came in but first Cathy came in waiting for someone to meet her outside to pray & advocate. No one came so she stayed to help us out & will be back next Tuesday before & after she prays & advocated out on the frontline.
We need more help on Tuesdays for Bobbie will be in Arizona until after Christmas. We do miss her. Much later Linda W. came to help us too......fantastic. We had someone drop off donations earlier with many bags. They worked hard helping the many clients that come into Focus to receive assistance.